Memorial Services

In our Orthodox Tradition, Memorial Services are prayed to comfort the living, to remind us, who still live, of our own mortality, and the brevity of this earthly life. For this reason, memorial services have an air of penitence about them.

At St. Demetrios we desire to help each other honor our departed loved ones. We ask that in order to properly do so that the following guidelines be followed:

In order to create Koliva for a parishioner, arrangements must be confirmed and paid by Tuesday prior to the desired Sunday date or the request will be moved to the next available Sunday. Cost is $100 and is payable by cash, check or credit card to cover the labor & time involved. These guidelines will help us prepare the special remembrance in a timely and respectful manner.

“May their memory be eternal.”


15:NOV

Fall Parish Assembly Sunday, November 15th, 2015

The Fall Parish Assembly will be held on Sunday, November 15th, 2015. The Parish Assembly will begin after Divine Liturgy (roughly 12 pm). Your participation is requested and important for our future. A question and answer period is provided in the agenda to ask questions regarding presentations and/or written reports.

As stated in our by-laws, participation in the Parish Assembly requires that one be a member in good ecclesiastical and financial standing at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church in Camarillo, CA. This means that one must be baptized and/or chrismated in the Orthodox Church, and where applicable, married or divorced in the Orthodox Church and live according to the Faith and canons of the Church. Simply, there must exist no spiritual impediments to complete participation in the life of the Church.

Please see the attached PDF form for additional details.

Agenda

Message from Fr Gary

Fr Gary

God’s Holy Word


A great benefit of spending time at summer camp is the opportunity to disconnect from technology. Not having a phone or internet connection gets you excited to receive mail. A great joy is receiving a (good old fashioned) letter from home. The delight in holding an envelope with the familiar handwriting of a loved one is a highlight for all the staff, counselors and campers. Everyone gets electrified when they get mail (real, handwritten, stamped envelope mail).

One afternoon at St. Sophia Camp, the Director handed me a small envelope sent to me from Christie. I took it, looked at it and put it in my pocket. “You gonna read it?” He asked. I nodded, smiled and walked to the chapel to prepare for evening vespers. I placed it on the altar and put my vestments on for the service.

Vespers ended and the kids were excited to go up the hill to mail call, anticipating their own letters and packages. Prior to their leaving the chapel I shared with them the unopened envelope from my wife. I asked, “What if I just set this letter from my wife on my night stand and never opened or read it?” The responses were touching and hilarious.

One little guy said, “I think you should read it, it will make you happy!” Another jokingly said, “You might end up sleeping on the couch if you don’t.” An older teen girl said, “That’s just coldhearted, what if...

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